Men and women of youth of the Achang nationality is in the process of acquaintance and love, bilateral metropolis each other gives a gift. The means since that this kind of each other gives a kind of special game, be bilateral friendly feelings is indicative, have relatively fixed content and program again at the same time, it is young men and women forms the bridge that a happy married couple. A certain girl is taken a fancy to in the place such as singing in antiphonal style, recreation, party when the boy hind, use the way that gives smoke, ask the other side to accept next his cigarette case. If the woman accepts next her cigarette case. If the woman accepts the cigarette case of next men, mean the woman to begin to be opposite the boy is intended. So, after crossing half moon 10 days, the girl can give a boy the cloth that a compose has Ma yesterday to spend and a packet of incense smoke. These things had been wrapped with paper, color line has bound reoccupy to give a boy. If color line writtens guarantee is to be buckled alive, state the girl has the heart of love to the boy, be willing to continue with the boy come-and-go and deepen feeling further. If color line writtens guarantee is to be buckled to death, with respect to the specification the girl does not wish to continue with boy come-and-go, express to refuse. After the boy receives a girl to form the gift that buckles alive with color line, knew the heart of the girl's love, the one hairpin protecting silver that can make with one's own hands with oneself is answered give a girl, on fasten two string together the Ma yesterday flower that has glisten chromatic bead, add bracelet, silver-colored catenary, silver to buckle again etc, good with beautiful paper bag send a girl, state ground of him sincerity sincerity falls in love with a girl. After the girl receives the man's gift, if wish to form lifelong spouse with the boy, can use oneself with one's own hands the A Changbu of spin does garment of an a kind of Chinese-style jacket with buttons down the front to give a boy, express and get married of the other side. If the girl goes back on his word at that time, do not think and boy get married, can buy a pillow to answer to the shop send, express to make an apology, ask boy additional look for a partner in marriage, the course that afore-mentioned each other give A prosperous person the gift is called change craft, include to send, 4 phase such as ceremony of recompense, represent, farewell.
Have mutual affinity when girl and boy, after finishing afore-mentioned each other to give the course of the gift again, they can agree wedding day, hold wedding.