The marriage that long-term reservation wears the Pumi nationality to have distinguishing feature alone is consuetudinary. Before People's Republic of China holds water, the marriage of the Pumi nationality basically is monopolized by the parent, execute maternal cousin of aunt mother's brother first marriage. After People's Republic of China holds water, the domestic marriage kind of the Pumi nationality produced constant change, young men and women executed free marriage mostly.
The activity such as the grand meeting that the acquaintance of young men and women and love basically carry god of hill of hold a memorial ceremony for, Long Tan, festival red-letter day and daily labor production will undertake. Girl and boy use these opportunities, mutual choose object, look for reason and excuse to be close to each other, fall in love. If be both sides of male and female,take a fancy to each other, make an appointment to slant with respect to meeting both sides quiet place, or glen, or forest, or lakefront, mutual and antistrophic love song.
Each other of both sides of male and female is ordered lifelong hind, till hold wedding before, date alone no longer, after wedding passes, the bride also answers life of a married woman's parents' home, do not stay in husband home. After this, between husband and wife can secret dealings, live in to the husband till the ability after be delivered of the first child.
The stick that bridal compere is pestering chromatic list with dips in on ghee, nod on the head in table of boiler village, mind, gate and bridegroom bride respectively point to, the dot on the head that blesses bridegroom bride points to, happiness of beatific bridegroom bride is lucky. Want to hold ceremony of the village that respect boiler then, finally is bridegroom bride does obeisance to a day to do obeisance to the ground to do obeisance to an immortal, the ceremony announces an end namely. Back-to-back, man home is in wooden arris room opens happy banquet greatly inside dam of medium, courtyard, guest of collectivity of great kindness entertainment. In delicate cate, the lute flesh with peculiar the Pumi nationality and sweet crisp in Ma wine is indispensable. Convivial before beginning, all guest wants unison (song of be a guest) , next ability is formal repast. After wine full meal is full, people is assembled in in courtyard dam, room room, ground of festively singing and dancing congratulates wedding, often all night until dawn.
Some places still withhold the Pumi nationality grab of marriage consuetudinary. Marry that day, parents still lets the daughter goes on hill or work in the ground, at that time, the man sent a person to come, cry greatly: Such-and-such home asks father to take tea! Rap the girl. Girl by man grab hind, what wedding presses the Pumi nationality is consuetudinary continue to hold.

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