Love and marriage ought resemble driving carriage, ability of advance side by side- do two or more things at once is happy. But actually, the ” of “ route chart that great majority newlywed lives without unified good future. " network doctor " the magazine is newest an issuance investigation shows, newly-married husband and wife drops the most easily the following ” of 5 “ trap:
1. Home “ our home is such lives. City of Florida of ” United States Wentepake Lei Bin of · of advisory Ai Di says health of manage of city illicit popular feeling, newlywed often underestimates family to be affected to his, think the life after marriage still is met according to before add of 　 of domestic habit afterwards goes down. “ but actually, everybody is met more or less adherence and original habits and customs, when the other side intolerable when this, two people appear very easily brawl. ” and only each other understand deep, find out the other side to need what kind of life after all, marital ability takes benign course. 2. Marriage can make us happy certainly. The precondition that has happy life is: Do not think bound of 2 the world can resemble Hollywood film clue so wonderful. " individual character and magazine of company understanding a Confucian school of idealist philosophy of the Song and Ming Dynasties " investigation of 15 years shows a last a period of time, if often feel loneliness, self-abased before individual marriage, blue, so he laughs at a mouth very hard also after marriage to often leave. Because single time creates happy capacity, decided the happy index of matrimony. 3. The spouse can be changed for me. Lei Bin expresses, a lot of husband and wife do not admit he try to change opposite party, but actually, proclaim namely before long after marriage in the husband and wife of the divorce, because importune a spouse to change and produce difference by his apiration,be partly quite, be on the road that part company finally. Actually, “ husband and wife should be a friend, is not each other for fluctuation class. Did not show sympathy to command only, profitless at marriage. ”4. The ability after marriage goes wanting how to become a good partner. In last few years, american marriage the scale of husband and wife that 8 months divorce increases greatly. A lot of people in them speak of same a problem: Before marrying he (she) never had carried “ man to must raise a ” , after “ woman gives birth to the child, must resign the requirement of ” and so on, when these standards are communicated again after marriage, let a person be accepted hard. Lei Bin points out, the people before marrying always can show their best one side, and the communication that despises each other to give birth to vivid manner. If the ability after marriage tells a wife “ to I hope you can come home,do full-time housewife ” , perhaps tell the husband “ to I hope you can raise a ” independently, destroyed a family probably. 5. Had contradiction still evasive conflict. Many newly-married husband and wife bear dissatisfaction by force to maintain the calm of the life. However, the small contradiction of this dribs and drabs is dissolved not in time, consider bringing about the great storm that part company to final meeting. Marital problem expert writings brush · Dr. Gao Teman thinks about, the husband and wife with better relationship, the scale of conjugal love and brawl should be 5 ∶ 1. Perfect spouse concern is to include, show sympathy each other, calm, is not to coerce anger, evasive conflict.
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